Warrior to Soul Mate - VA San Diego Healthcare System
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VA San Diego Healthcare System


Warrior to Soul Mate

Warrior to Soul Mate Weekly Couples' Sessions – Renew, Reconnect, and Reclaim your Relationship after Military Service

The VA San Diego Healthcare System's Mental Health Care Line now offers an 8-week relationship-building group sessions for Veterans.  Our “Warrior to Soul Mate” program is designed to help couples learn effective communication skills to gain emotional wisdom as a way to strengthen and/or re-build their relationships.  The sessions are conducted by a Certified PAIRS Instructors using the PAIRS Essentials curriculum.

If interested, please contact your provider and request a consult to "Family Mental Health Program - Outpatient" for treatment options.

Independent research has shown the following benefits:

  • Restored and revitalized relationships
  • Higher levels of satisfaction
  • Reduced symptoms of distress and anxiety
  • Greater commitment to shared vision
  • Increased resilience for marriage, families and relationships


“My husband and I have been married for 9 years & have attended counseling, marriage retreats; had one-on-one help, yet no one nor any resource has made an impact like PAIRS Essentials.  For the first time, we actually engaged in meaningful discussions that offer a win/win for both of us.”


Contact Info


  • San Diego VAMC
    Mental Health Care Line
    Family Mental Health Program

Contact Number(s)

  • 858-642-1207

Hours of Operation

  • Monday - Friday
    7:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.